Relationship with Community in Tragic Circumstances.

What is our relationship with tragedy and tragic situations? How do we react, respond, offer support and yet stay centered and not get caught in the drama. First off, my practice is to be without judgement - not always easy. Secondly I try not to ponder the why or the wherefore. Thirdly I try to understand what is practical and needed that I can offer and follow through with. My thoughts then tend to move towards healing, conflict resolution or tending the soul of a person, place or community.